I would never accuse anyone of such a thing on PPRuNe!
Which is the result of poor judgment and airmanship in the first place...
Your words Meeb- Exasperated by being "Misunderstood"?, then don't make inflamatory remarks to begin with!
As to what your actual point is, the best I can gleen is "Try not to get unstable in the first place". Brilliant! Why didn't we think of that??
Any pilot, private , professtional or otherwise does the best he can to achieve a good outcome. What is paramount is that all pilots realise that if, for whatever reason, they are not set up for a safe landing they go around without fear of recrimination and acusation from "armchair quarterbacks" such as yourself.
Would a pilot under your supervision be able to do that without being accused of "poor judgment and airmanship"?