Hello Soneraisam,
Its obviously a big financial commitment should you not be financially well off! I would consider how it would affect you or family should you take the financial plunge and go for the fATPL!
Theres alot of learning involved; although the material isn't hard its the amount of information you must learn and keep in the head that gets you.
If I was you I would speak to some of the individual schools (oxford, FTE, cabair etc) and ask questions about fellow students whose age wasn't on their side neither! This may give you a good insight and help you in your decision.
Good luck with what ever you do.
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