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That's just the sort of response I expected, I'm just surprised there were not more of them.
Strikes me that I what suggested is a very simple solution where the only person who gets hurt is the transgressor. If you like having to make difficult heart searching decisions that might cause difficult relationships that is your prerogative.
As for what my occupation is, it's not relevant to the discussion in hand, but I'm most definitely not a politician.