So why don't you all sit back and let it happen? Everytime you make an input you screw up at least three other pilots.
If you were just to sit on your fingers for a couple of months and let the system happen, you might just possibly remember how it was that you made a 2-day stop over on Juhu Beach in Bombay really enjoyable.
Sharing grief has always been a large part of my life and my aviation career. I have never ever been considered by anyone to be a selfish person.