Part-time training in the south

[What's a Girdler]

I have a dilemma, please help!

I work in Fareham and live near Basingstoke

I have to work full time, and not prepared to quit (my wife would kill me) and I need to find a school where I can train at weekends for the CPL/IR what's the best place to do this? I'm thinking:

BCFT
Oxford

Not sure if Oxford can accommodate me for my needs, I may be wrong

I have heard recently that BCFT have had a few partials and fails with CPL/IR training from some guys there whilst doing my groundschool with them.

Any suggestions please. Unbiased assistance duly appreciated