Hi crazy max,
sorry for the misunderstanding...the magic moment is just when the children are in bed and you can have YOUR time, so all parents will understand it. Maybe the expression is wrong in english.
And I am a pilot so I thought that this forum is also an opportunity to meet other pilot and familly as with the children we cannot go out in the evening its not easy for us to meet other people
I hope that the forum is not only for complaining.