I'm sorry guys, about that dinner, has someone actually thought that some of you actually pull the same stunt!! Not that it's right, however, decide on how to settle the bill before you order!!
Try be a bit more individual in judging people.
The amount of time I've spent alone with you guys going out for a drink and dinner by myself, because no one of our crew has showed up is numerous! And then having to listen to flight stories whole night long in stead of other interests in life...
That doesn't mean I won't go out for dinner anymore, because not everyone is the same. We all have our own agenda's and things to do, especially if and when we finally get that layover we bid for!! As you may encounter as well, is that our bidding system isn't that crew friendly, so if we are "blessed" to get something to our liking, let us enjoy that as well in our own way. There are different ways of being a team, and going out on the piss and getting hammered isn't on everyones' idea of having a good time and switching of from work.
Lets keep some respect for eachother here! When you start there, you got something going!