Out of interest FlyMD-12 how old are you?
I am 35 (36 in November boo hoo) and finally after over 20 years are following my dream. Is it bloody hard???? you bet.
The thing is this, there is no easy way to get money, you are young and have your life ahead of you. You apear to live in America?? well you will be happy to hear that the cost of flying is cheaper there. So this is what I would do if I were you. get two jobs or as many as you can handle, save every cent you can, sell the car, your computer everything can be replaced, don't eat a McDonalds, Wendys etc. Take flying lessons, one a month if thats all you can afford. Ask at the local airfield if you can do odd jobs. Clean aircraft, sweep up etc.... Do not let your Pride and ego get in the way. Never, ever give in, ever.....
I had to wait until I was 33 to follow my dream, one that started when I was 11 by the way. I sold my house, my Wifes car, cashed in my pension and insurance all with no guarantee of a job at the end. I don't regret this one bit, I have had a lot of fun in my life and am glad that I am finally doing somthing I wanted to do.
FF