My intent was to enable gay cc to share their problems, experiences, funny or interesting stories etc etc. It was not intended to in any way be sexual in nature.
I feel this would young gay crew and wannabes to gain a better understanding of life as a gay F/A.
Oh... and that experience was of me as a pax, and later, when I thought about what had happened, I simply wondered if that was a common thing or not in other airlines.