Many of those exhorting their Richard Littlejohnesque abhorrence at what gay men get up to in the bedroom (or anywhere else) seem to have put a little more thought into what goes on than might be healthy. I can't say I've ever really considered what they physically do as I doesn't have any effect on me.
I can only recall the wave of apathy that ran over me when a good mate (good officer and good pilot to boot) outed himself to us on a night out. He was a mate 5 minutes before and has continued to be so since.
Perhaps people such as Flap62 should question what they'd do were their best mate to suddenly break the same news. Indeed, how would they wish to be treated (as a friend and a professional) were they to be the ones coming out. Not that that'd be you Flaps, you're repeated assertion of your 'red bloodedness' has us all convinced.