Re-Heat,
Re-Heat said "If you are not prepared to ask the question - how is your boyfriend - you have come no further than when it was all in the closet."
I think that pretty much sums things up. You have hit the nail on the head. This is probably the question people should ask themselves alongside the Service test (ie
"Have the actions or behaviour of an individual adversely impacted or are they likely to impact on the efficiency or operational effectiveness of the Service?")
If you can't ask yourself the 'boyfriend' question then I do not think you have a right to make a fair assessment
In assessing whether to take action, Commanding Officers will consider a series of key criteria. This will establish the seriousness of the misconduct and its impact on operational effectiveness and thus the appropriate and proportionate level of sanction.