I recall during an officer selection exercise @ 150 potential officers of both sexes were being assessed.
In the finest traditions of the service after a 3 mile run in the rain and mud, we were pointed at the gym and told we had 3 minutes to be showered, changed into our suits / ladies' equivalent and be back outside ready to march off to the classroom and take the written exams.
On entering the gym there was one shower room @ 30' square with about 20 shower heads in it.
We all stripped off and jumped into the shower and started washing. It was only when the hairy-@rsed Jock RSM came in and nearly had an apoplectic fit that we realised that the girls had done exactly as the boys and we were all in the shower together.
It will obviously come as a surprise to Flaps62 that none of the gay or straight chaps had got excited in the shower, no women had thrust themselves upon the men (or vice-versa) and folk of both genders managed to bend down to pick up the shower gel and pass it around without the slightest fear of molestation.
These people who automatically assume they are God's gift to gay men (or straight women) never cease to amaze me.
Perhaps the table legs in the Flaps62 household are kept covered lest the sight of a well-turned Queen Anne ankle should cause such an upwelling of pent-up lust that he might lose a fly-button!