Agreed,an awful lot of relevant stuff(safety,standards) goes under the carpet at middle management level,in order to keep themselves looking shipshape.
Grooming standards,just another mis directed defaulter.
The real issues are as you state Ernie.Problem as you suggest if you raise them to the Captains cabin instead of listening he will pay you lip service and ammend your file for a keel hauling.
Newsletters state the cabin door is open,but be wary stepping in.
Warnings on crew morale, standards,FTL,upgrade policy have been ignored,shoals and reefs ahead me thinks,unless someone on upper deck stands up and comes clean on the real issues. Sir.
QB