A huge amount of work goes into the organising of the biggest RAF show. You have to work hard to achieve a balance between the family day out, the enthusiasts and the knowledgable.
The RAF are the best in the world at it - clearly, however, we failed in all counts in your case. For that, on behalf of the show organisers, I humbly apologise. Unfortunately, a refund is not possibe. However, you will know not to come next year.
You will have a full day uninterrupted to pursue your fascinating hobbies.