Having spent a number of years living a long way from my family with no staff benefits I'm really appreciative of what I now get.
But then I'm polite whether I fly full fare or subload.
It is a priviledge and I wish more people were disciplined.
One thing I did notice was last 2 QF international trips on subload the CSM gave me a customer satisfaction survey to fill in. Was it because I was nicely dressed in Y or because it said Staff on the passenger list.