Well that is fine...maybe im reading you wrong. Your origianl post was quite immature, implying that the pilots were kids and required training wheels to fly the aircraft.
Maybe if your first post was a little bit more credible I would have taken your situation more seriously. Im not saying it wasnt a tramatic event for you or for the other passangers. When you dont fly on a regualr basis your not exposed to all the things that can happen I guess. To that flight attendant a hard landing is probably something that has been encountered before. I work for another charter and I have experianced them as well, like the FA said, they happen.
Hopefully youll fly again, but if you dont than i guess thats a choice you choose to follow.
Cheers