The general opinion is that Mil Conts should stay in with the Mil Aircrew.
That's a hell of an assumption ... show me one (yes, ONE) post which states that.
I read the consensus being that Mil and Civil ATC are adequately served by being in the same Forum (i.e. here) where both disciplines can interract.
Failing that, I am sure you can find a non simian Bulletin Board somewhere on the vast network called the Internet to cater for your needs
