Amstelveen is right next to Amsterdam (you'll need to know where to look to find the dividing line) and is generally accepted to be the 'posh' suburb of Amsterdam. Good place to live as far as I know. A 25-30 minute tram ride will get you to the center of Amsterdam from most locations around Amstelveen. To get an idea of where it's located, type the placename into
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