PPRUNE FAN
I have, unfortunately, sat on a number of post-accident review boards in my time. In a lot of cases, the pilot was the primary causal factor. The worst thing for me is to face a pilot who doesn't know what he did wrong, and won't acknowledge what he did wrong, and isn't sorry that he did anything wrong. In a lot of cases we have asked, "If you had it to do over again, what would you do differently?" Sadly, we are often met with a blank stare and the puzzled-sounding answer, "Nothing." Ouch.
Your sentence above describes best yourself! If you had better people skills the maybe Raven wouldn´t have pulled his thread and people would have had the chance to learn from his occurrence.
So in hindsight what would you have done differently? Did YOU learn anything.