PUO, Sonny, I suggest you bugg@r off and find a 'job' that more suits your clearly prodigious talents.
I am saddened to hear that this is just a 'job' to you and your peers. I have been around a bit longer than you (still a 70's child though), and I still love what I do. Yes there are many things that piss me off, getting dicked around by all sorts of different people is part of life in the services. Another part of life is the genuine pleasure of getting your task done in a professional manner, and doing it with people who will be friends for life because of all that you have put up with. If all that floats your boat is money they I suggest that you are not fit to be an Officer or a member of HM armed services. Take a look around you when you can get your head out of your @rse, you will notice that the world is not revolving around you.
One day, if you wake uo, you may have a number of people who are relying on you to keep them alive. You may be delivering personnel into a hot spot that needs our help to prevent another genocide etc etc. There are opportunities in the forces that you could not even dream of. It is true that we all move on, families, kids etc will eventually change your perspectives, it has mine, but if you make the effort you will have some very rewarding times. If, on the other hand, all you are interested in is financial gain and an easy life, then you are in the wrong career and the person that recruited you must have been lied to.
If you are correct in your assertions about the attitude of most of your peers then I have genuine fears about the future of the RAF.
You say that you are an officer, well dry your eyes and start acting like it - set an example or leave, there is no middle ground.