I just noticed that redblue and I are from the same city. Maybe he and I have "arrived" on runways together. If you're my student, redblue, you haven't even come close to breaking the mains.
Less thinking, more LOOKING at the shape of the runway exactly as your instructor flares, and copy that. In the flare, don't raise the nose any higher than needed to hold altitude. That way you won't start too high, and you won't balloon too high, so you needn't worry.