wanty
Sounds like you've recovered nicely from your initial ambiguous post.
Yeah, some of them are pricks... but that's true of most groups of people. Just rember the liability that they have to accept as the Captain of an aircraft. No different to most peoples jobs in aviation, but none the less they will be the ones hung out to dry when it goes wrong.
Having said that, trust in your skills and those of your supervisors... if it is bad, make a call and stick to your guns. If the aircrew are rude and arrogant, wonder why they feel the need to belittle people like yourself.