AH Wannabee,
I wonder why you deleted your original and may I add first post?
I am even more suspicious as you refer to me as Siloe, a name used in past battles here on prune by others.
Anyway, why did I think you were at Dishforth? Maybe because that is where you said you were in your post, that one that has mysteriously been deleted.
Even still, your reply stinks, if you are what you claim to be, you will know the answers to your own questions or at least be with those who will tell you.
You are correct when you say that your post had nothing 'secret' in it, but what you are asking stinks of trawling.
However very scared of a divorce and equally as scared if my 2 nippers turn round in 10 years time and say Dad, where were you? There is a difference in working your heart out on Op tours, peacetime and Op tours - life will be gone in a flash (just as the family will).
If you are who/what you claim to be AHWannabee, then you must have heard of AIDS, therefore you know the score.