Dear Hajj Man,
Thanks for your advice it’s certainly a good one. A diplomatic way or the other angle, could be a possible solution, but doesn’t guarantee reaching the goal. One of the reasons poor english understanding. I think it would be a good idea to implement a safety relevant “key words” like “I don’t feel comfortable doing this”.
Having said that it’s a trigger for the other guy, we are getting in to a safety relevant stage now, and so I need to listen to my college. Simple because we are all different and the way we think is different, that might end up in misunderstanding each other or even taking the issue personal, which is worst case scenario. I have experienced that practice in the other airline and I can tell you, when ever somebody has announced the key words, the attention was there and people started to listen and to talk to each other, which is the key to success.
It’s just an idea.
Cheers.