Sometimes men are worthy of being dumped whether a good job comes along or not. I think that game should be two fold there. The men should also act like their wives are important and aren't going to be stranded in HK with having to return home or find a way to live after the hubby has had a few games of skirt chasing. Men and women can spot men like that a mile away. Actually they are much easier to spot than a woman wanting to have a life. I will agree with the don't drink in excess. But the who is the most committed game is a two way street and both parties (husbands and wives) are going to be watched.