Hey PILOT ERROR,
I believe reality has just hit you and it is not an act of chance that your missus left you.Actually she has left HKG.This is real,your life is in HKG and she does not like it ,unfortunately.Its a bit like when a chick leaves a guy who cant get it up,he is a nice guy,but stuff living with him.I think i will just be friends.
Dont be fooled into believing she will stay because you are earning the bucks!!Everyone wants a life first!!