Dear depressed of Discovery Bay
I know that you are feeling glum right now, and so this may not be the best moment to tell you that things may get much worse...in the short term.
However, in a few months or so you will have completely forgotten the old cow who dumped you so shamelessly and will be enjoying drunken nights out with your mates in Wanchai.
In short dont leap from the frying pan into the fire!!!