As some of you guys have pointed out it's indeed not only your skills behind the control wheel which will equip you with a "passed" rubber stamp on the forehead..
It is certainly also your decision making, how you interact and your general attitude towards job and life in general.
No employer wants people who "smell" of problems.. (I'm not hinting towards this forum starter - but just speaking in general). That's not only within the aviation industry. It's just how it is..
Have a nice day - all..