Geez Pinky, thanks for the advice.
I have a life which I have no regrets about, happily married and living the good life. My attitude!!! Have you met me before, good one. 90% of my employers in AG would take me back, like I said, my decision so I ain't complaining. The whole reason for my post was to inform others that all of us have different experience. Best that people get all sides before embarking on that long road.
The moral of the post: "don't **** on other people's post's".