I love to Cum Kuat:
It seems to me that rather than raising the blood pressure of your colleagues you all should give some thought to the following piece of Malay wisdom which has been handed down by wiser persons than you and I.
" Sarang tebuan jangan dijolok, mati kena ketubung." atau
" sebab berkelahi dengan perigi, akhirnya mati dahaga."
Regards,
Prince of Dzun
P.S. It's not sera sera, it is serah serah.