amongthestars - hopefully by now, you're aware that you are involved in a complicated situation in which feelings are running high.
It might be worth considering your text carefully before you next post on this thread. I'm not telling you what to think, do or write - moderators are required to be neutral. However, moderators are also required to try and keep an emotive thread on track and within PPRuNe rules, and although you may not realise, or intend it to be so, your last post might be considered inflammatory.
Many thanks.
P.S. In return,
lexus1 will promise not to lose his/her temper again