THANKYOU foldingwings!!
As I mentioned before, I was giving my opinion as I felt suitably qualified to have an opinion regarding this post.
It was great to read others experiences of couples where the girlfriend/Fiance/Wife/Partner does have a career and makes it work. This subject has caused a bit of a personal dilemma for me in recent times but now I can see that it can work with us both having careers. Great!!
I have been totally put off of pprune by the comments made by some other members of this forum and it has been nice to have some support from other members!!!