Mystic Meg,
have you stumbled upon the CV (as well as the m.o.) of a nice man I used to work with some (but not many) years ago?
"WHAT IS ‘BAD’ BEHAVIOUR?
Behaviours are all about how we conduct ourselves and relate to others in our every day lives and can take many forms. Some unacceptable behaviours are: -
Any form of discrimination (sexual, racial, religious, age etc).
Intolerance.
Bullying.
Blatant disregard for reasonable rules or conventions.
Anything which causes offence or embarrassment to others; such offence is not measured by the giver but by the receiver. This may include subtle ostracism.
Swearing or abusive language; it is borne of ignorance and causes offence.
‘Bad’ behaviour may be spoken, written, or physical or covert.
Do you think NATS management would stand for one of their number involving him/herself in any of the above activities? No, I should think not either....