Ok, enormous longshot and highly unlikely to work but....
I remember checking out the red arrows a while back - just out of interest.
You won't be able to "book" them to appear, but they do say that if they happen to be in the neighbourhood and its not too much trouble and there is a reason, they are often happy to make a small detour for a flypast.
like i said its as long as a longshot ever got
but nothing ventured.....
Hope you manage to find something appropriate whatever happens
http://www.raf.mod.uk/reds/faqs.html