In Switzerland
Alternative you can live in south Germany or France and commute. If You dont do it daily it helps... a few words would helps in all three languages there.. merci vielmals... grazie mille and merci for the beginning as well as Gruezi midanant... bon jour.. bon giorno. Just for the sake of it and you will see it opens the door. Until you get access to the heart it take longer.....
Wiederluega, au revoir, arrevidercci
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