In the US, you can file a NASA form.
Any infraction that wasn't criminal and didn't result in an accident is acceptable to file a report over. You send them to NASA, they remove your identifying details and send it on to the FAA. If an action is started against you, the NASA form acts as a get-out-of-jail-free card. To avoid abuse, you can file as many as you want
but only actually use one for escape in a seven year period.
Seems like a pretty good system to me and one that will help with understanding why things go wrong.
(apologies if you already know that / have something similar in the UK)