The best reply I have seen here was from papercut. Polite but very much to the point.
I am sorry you have experienced some difficult medical issues spiderman, but flying as a fighter pilot or as an airline pilot requires a fairly high level of medical fitness particularly at the induction phase of those careers.
It is a fact of life that not everybody will be able to attain those levels and that is just unfortunate. The levels are set to reflect a balance of fairness to both the candidate and the employer based on the the relevant requirements and as best as can be ascertained to provide a viable full career term.
Hopefully you will be able to resolve your own problems, but it is of little use bemoaning the requirements or complaining about the perceived unfairness of them. Sometimes there are borderline issues that can be overcome or offered dispensation and other times there are clearly not. Dreams aside these are realities that you should properly address. In the first instance you should approach your medical advisors (G.P. Specialists etc,) then if appropriate the Aviation medical professionals. as well as being honest to the authorities and prospective employers you need to be honest to yourself. Sometimes, indeed very often, life has to take a different direction from that originally intended.