Just be careful that if you wish to hard that you may get your dreams.
Many of my friends are Harrier Pilots and they go through exactly what you do. It may seem a little harsh but there are other views on life. I do really feel for you but there is more than one way to skin a cat.
I trained to fly helicopters in the Army. After 3 years in Battalion I got through all the training and medicals only to be binned from the course like everybody else of my rank through government cut-backs. No matter how hard I pushed the firm is just to big and can push back harder.
You need to act smart, keep your cards near your chest. Just like keeping your medical to a later date until you are off the tablets.
I had a good friend in Battalion who was medically discharged for epilepsy. However get it checked out. They will not move the goal posts though. It is immensly frustrating I know. Don't expect empathy from them, they don't really give a hoot.
When I was infront of a board of 8 officers of similar rank, one blurted out that I was chopped because I had a degenerative disease. I nearly fainted and took myself off. I was later called back in and told that I had miss understood...It was my broken leg from 5 years earlier.
I resigned my Commission the following Monday. Life in the forces isn't all Beer and Skittles.
I have never been happier than I am now. Sept 11 stood in the way of a Commercial Airline job for a couple of years. However now I have my own business, money in the bank for the first time ever! ATPLs under raps, no broken leg and a future setting up my own business in aviation with my own aircraft.
What I am trying to say is there is more to life than the military and airlines.
I haven't got the good school results, my degree is a desmond, yet I have common sense and a huge amount of motivation.
Look at your problems in the face...make a plan...take a condor moment... and then kick your problems in the Bolloxs.
Life is 10% motivation and 90% luck, every percent helps.
I sincerely wish you the best...now make a plan.