If you're a "Big Girl" then there won't be too many "boys" trying to get into yer pants! .....
Seriously though, It sounds to me like you ARE taking things personally, and getting your knickers in a twist prematurely. IF this post is typical of your personality, then perhaps GA is not the safest place for you to be. Personally... I hope that everyone who wants to fly, can fly; and those that want to fly commercially will achieve their dreams.
No offence intended SPLANNIE... a sense of humour IS required to do the job!