WTFAW
You are clearly totally unsuited to the expatriate lifestyle!
And yes, I can read thanks!
If you worked for Dragonair, based in HKG, you would be expected to bring your family with you, so no pressure on your wife there then? You wouldn't be thousands of miles away.
May come as a shock to you but your teenage boys could play any sport they wanted in HKG and receive a good education and make a lot of friends.
I don't think your highly subjective (and not very acurate), remarks are particularly helpful to the majority who read this forum and are self confessed 'Wannabes' for either CX or Dragonair.