Read your other post, willow.
I thought you were 'highly motivated' and an 'excellent pilot'?
In you position, you have got to ditch pretty much everything if you want to succeed.
My 'advice' to you would be to start saving, as you're running the risk of being too old for sponsorship by going out and getting some academic qualifications that would make you applicable.
With loan repayments, rent, council tax, bills, girlfriend who likes shopping etc, you're already looking at an uphill struggle from the word go.
You need to streamline your finances, get yourself a medical, buy yourself some ATPL manuals and get your head in some books, so at least you're being productive during the time you're waiting for the cash to trickle in.
The cheapest way you're going to get there is doing the Instructor route. Get your IMC / hour build as cheap as you can (USA, or volunteer your services to a gliding club (get your face known)), get your writtens passed, then look at the CPL and Instructors rating.
This will take you time and effort, but it's the best way you're going to get a foot on the ladder.
You're wanting to join an industry that is fierce in competition for sponsorship/jobs/promotion etc, so you need to start thinking with the same mentality.
Think positive, there's no quick-fix and , like I said in my last post to you; The industry does not owe you a living!
Chin Up mate.....