That is a shocking list of prices, Tony.
But the only item on your list which is actually necessary is a good headset. Most of the other stuff is totally unnecessary, and those bits which are necessary (such as the kneeboard, and, depending on how anal the airport authorities are where you fly, the hi-viz vest) can be made or bought somewhere else cheaper.
The moral is that this crap is there for those of us with the money to buy it all. And for those of us without the money, you can get away with a bare minimum of £2.95 for an "I'd Rather Be Flying" car window sticker
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