Beware, my friend, that laws regarding family reunification have changed recently. Being married to a Dane is not enough to recieve work permit, recidency and especially citizenship. I urge you to get info on this issue; you might be in for a rude awakening! You obviously havent been doing your homework. You simply do not show up at the pearly gate, saying "where is my left seat?"
Secondly, without a JAR license, your FAA ticket is worthless.
Thirdly, HUNDREDS of furloughed pilots are AHEAD of you in the jobmarked, but I ofcourse salute your determination.