Thanks to everyone who posted on this topic - the support is much appreciated.
To put Mightycrewseven's mind at rest, the situation with the offensive post was dealt with by myself - thanks though for the concern.
Having private'ly messaged the person in question who wrote the offensive post, telling him to be a man and explain his comments i was messaged with an apology a week later.
Although the apology was based on Alcohol induced stupidity which is quite lame (been there done it), it was accepted so enough said on the issue.
I'm away to OASC in a weeks time so hears hoping and praying!!!
Thanks again everyone for the advice and support,
Naz