I've had Bournemouth so busy that they never came back to me after a 'standby': but I could hear they were geniunely busy, so I told them I was changing to someone else, and did so. All other times Bournemouth have been excellent. I think they pick up the brunt of the radio when Boscome are closed, like most weekends.
Never had a rude comment or anything despite my desperately poor RT skills. I am trying to improve, but somehow still get brain fade when making that TPHACER message verbally. I'll get it right one day.