Nope - almost (but not entirely) totally wrong.
In fact, you have come out with one of the most common and most fatal misconceptions about what CRM is and is not.
CRM is about using all resources available to you in the most effective manner possible in order to bring the flight to a safe and expeditious conclusion.
It is NOT about being polite to everybody. It is not about everyone in the crew having a nice, warm, fuzzy feeling. It is not about respecting other people. It is not about not offending their feelings by failing to let their opinions affect your decision.
If the only way to get one member of the crew to do his/her job is to shout and scream and hit him/her about the head with a Jepps manual, then CRM dictates that is what you should do.