Airbus Girl...
So why are you BA pilots still there then, if its so awful?
I don't think people are saying it's "awful". It's just not what some think it is....
When you fly with someone who has joined BA, and after <1 year is totally disillusioned, and wants to return from whence they came, it sums up to a seriously disadvantaged career. Earnings, seniority, domestic upheavals etc. Others give up a Command to do the same job in BA but in the RHS (i.e. P1 BMI A320 to P2 BA A320), and are as happy as Larry with the change.
Just research it properly - some don't. Sounds like you have...