Hey Kempus
Sorry to hear whats happened. My friend says theres several stages a man goes through when he breaks up with someone. The first is to feel confused and bewildered, the last is to go to a strip club with your mates. I'd skip the middle stages and go straight to the end...!!
When things go unexpectedly wrong with women, ask her exactly what you arent doing. If shes worth it, she'll tell you so you can put it right. Don't sweep it under the carpet, it will rear its ugly head again later.
Us women are a funny breed, but so are you men!! The book, Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus, does have some truth in it! That will keep you busy for a bit!
When women say nothing is wrong, but pout at the same time, we want you to make the effort to show you care and listen to whats bothering us. If men say theres nothing wrong, you mean there is actually nothing wrong!
If we get in after work and we are annoyed, we want to talk about it for about an hour, want tyou to comment and agree. Whereas you guys want to think it over, deal with it yourselves and only consult us if you really need to. Of course we want to worry about you the same way we want to be worried about during a crisis, hence why we keep asking you whats wrong!!
When a woman asks how your day was and you say it was just ok, you mean it was just ok, nothing eventful. A woman can perceive this as you keeping something from her and not involving her in your life. Simply extend your answer to something like 'average day really, pretty boring, but no hiccups for a change'.
If you have had a $hite day, tell her you'll talk to her when you have worked it out in your head yourself. If shes worth it she'll understand.
When we say we dont mind you calling off a date to go out with a mate, we dont really mean it, but want to please you. Compromise to keep us and yourself happy.
On the phone, men say what they want in less than a minute then hang up. A woman on the other end of the phone may find this abrupt, and take it personally. We like to talk about nothing! Even if I am calling a freind to arrange what time to pick her up later, we still talk for half an hour!!
But then if all the above was true, and I know what I'm talking about, why the hell am I still single??!! Hmmmm....
SWF, Blonde, 28, WLTM male with own hair and teeth, GSOH........previous boyfriends need not apply.
