Bluetail, the subject does not cause me any discomfort - the years pass and the wounds heal. I was more concerned for the families, who, hopefully, have moved on and re-built their lives without the ones they loved.
Chris, a wise decision. Mike is a fine man; I lived with his hurt at the time, the more so because there was nothing I could do for him. All I could do was to take some of the mundane chores out of Jan's hands to try to ease her pain.
RIP Chris, I remember you well, my friend...
FJJP