Unless things have changed dramatically over the last 18 months I think it is more likely to get struck by lightning and win the lottery at the same time than get permission to land at any of the dutch military only airfields.
You can fly to the shared civil/military ones (Eindhoven & Twente)
This is very much to my chagrin.
I was brought up from grasshopper height onwards and did subsequent gliding and my dad gliding and flying at Gilze Rijen, but when I wanted to fly into there that was met with a very firm 'Njet'
As my dad lives just up the road from GR I did my level best at sorting this out but to no avail. Even having contacts at the Dutch National Historic Flight has made no difference in this.
Very sad.
However if you do manage, please please let me know and I will redouble the effort and give it another go.
FD